I highly value friends and friendship. I have found that my use of those terms, however, is much more restrictive than their use by many other people. In my mind, a friend is not just someone you know and with whom you are friendly. To me, friendship is not just a human relationship that exists when people happen to be connected because they belong to a common interest group of some kind, whether it be school, club, church, political organization, or whatever. To me, friends are people who feel a close interpersonal bond, who desire and find time to be together, who will help one another without having to be asked, who truly enjoy the company of one another, who may disagree and even argue and still not let that interfere with the friendship, and so much more. To me, friendship is a close interpersonal relationship that is not bound by time, place, or convenience.
Rather than my rambling on, I ask you to continue on, by visiting the following webpages:
Definition of friend from Dictionary.com
Article on Friendship from Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Best Friends Forever, courtesy of The Quote Garden
YouTube: James Taylor – You’ve Got A Friend with lyrics